Alone, but Not Lonely

Although we may never be in such frightening situations ourselves, loneliness can have the same impact on us as it had on them. We never need to be ashamed or feel guilty about feelings of loneliness; but we do have to fight them. There are two ways individuals attempt to cope with loneliness—a negative one and a positive one. The first is a way of self-pity, of criticism, of anger, of unjust blame, and of discontent. It does not lead us out of loneliness.

The second method, the right way out of loneliness, is to engage in meaningful activities such as church and service. This means helping others who are more in need than we. There is a saying: “I was sad about not having shoes, until I met someone without feet.” Peace comes as we give our lives to worthwhile activities in spite of being alone.

I miss my wife dearly. We are at a stage in our lives where important decisions had to be made. My return to New Zealand by myself was that of sadness, despair and not know when I'll be returning back to my wife. It is hard. It is expensive. But it must be done. 

I think of the teachings of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how it's helped both kersha and I overcome our situation with the constant help of our Father in Heaven. Being apart was and is never easy. There is nothing like having your eternal companion by your side, to pick you up, to hold your hand and embrace with loving and gentle care.

I know that our Heavenly Father constantly watches over us and is aware of our situation, and when the time comes where Kersha and I will reunite, it is only because our Heavenly Father has heard our prayers and blessed us for it. I cannot wait when that time comes.

I love you Kersha and although I'm over 6,000 miles away our love is eternal. =)

May our Heavenly Father continue to watch over us at this time.